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Are you considering a multi-partner sex game?

Every couple has friends. However, some friendships go beyond the usual family barbecues on a summer afternoon or the typical cocktail hour. Many of us find an attraction to other partners that can best be characterized as flirtatious and perhaps even a bit sexual in nature. While no doubt most have secretly wondered what it would be like to become more intimate with the opposite-sex member of another couple, few act on it. The norms of most social groups generally prohibit this type of behavior.

The reason for this reluctance is usually related to the fact that a close friendship can be soured if a particularly playful member of a group makes his wishes known. However, under the right circumstances, it may be appropriate for couples to experiment with a more adventurous flavor of fun. While the indicators that this may be a possibility can be elusive, common signs include a turn in the conversation toward sexual topics, some light flirting between partners, and “innocent” touches received from a non-partner. Even if these indicators exist, there is still a risk that moving dinner to a sexier pace will put off some members of the friend group.

In the event that you and your partner have discussed making your next party a little more edgy, there are a variety of ways to broach the idea with friends. The first is to increase the level of sexy talk to gauge the receptiveness of the other partner. Another method is to tell a story about a couple “you’ve heard of” who throw wild parties and may even be into swingers. A real favorite is asking the group if they would like to play a naughty game after everyone has had a few drinks. A particularly wise friend once said, “Every couple is only three martinis away from being swingers.” A fun way to set the mood is to suggest a party game of drinking or truth or dare that several couples can play together. There will always be a few daring members of the group who are interested in testing the limits of everyone’s comfort. Given the reaction to this over the course of the night, it may be acceptable to turn up the heat by introducing multi-partner foreplay.

Multi-partner sex games require a bit of advance planning in order to be carried out correctly. One of the most important elements is sexy and upbeat music. Barry White is definitely not a good idea. Instead, he considers a combination of clubs that will remind players of that night of debauchery they fondly remember from years ago. In addition, it is essential to provide a comfortable seating area that facilitates interaction and access to the game board itself. He remembers to dim the lights as everyone looks better in dim light and it creates a sexy vibe. Finally, based on the group’s potential for some really rowdy fun, having condoms or sex toys hidden nearby might make sense. Now let’s get to the really fun part: what multi-couple sex game to suggest?

It’s quite common for the instigating partner to put out a sex game designed for individual couples, and then tweak the rules to make the game work for a group. Unfortunately, this is often difficult and these games don’t spend a lot of time setting the mood or making the experience easier for the participants. As such, it makes sense to suggest a game where everyone is familiar with the rules. Consider Truth or Dare, Strip Poker, or Spin the Bottle as possible starters. Also, these games tend to keep things fairly light and as a result are the right approach for a first attempt at “playing”. Assuming the multiple couples present are very comfortable with each other, you may choose to suggest a game for swingers.

Multi-partner sex games and swinger games are essentially the same thing. The most important element in selecting a game in this category is to consider the potential for real exchange between the couples present. While there aren’t many swinger games on the market today, some assume that everyone who plays is fully into “The Lifestyle” and has no limits or inhibitions. This is fine if you are playing with other pairs that you have played with in the past. However, for those initially exploring the possibility, make sure the game you choose has enough flexibility to accommodate all preferences and levels of participation. A great game will ensure that participants easily control the pace of the game without feeling like a “spoiler” if a challenge or question is outside their comfort level. In addition, it is essential that a multiple partner sexual game allows the group to regulate the intensity of the game based on the wishes of the most conservative individual. To that end, a great house rule is to establish that women are in charge of deciding how much to do and what limits are most appropriate for the session.

Make your next party or gathering memorable and fun by suggesting a variety of sex games for multiple partners. While there is some risk, you’ll have a good idea if this is right for you and your friends. Also, be sure to select the most appropriate game for the situation and the group’s preferences.

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