23 Telltale Signs Your Husband Or Wife May Be Cheating On You Right Now
“Is my partner cheating on me?”
If you are asking yourself this question, there may already be a problem.
The following is a quick guide to help you determine if your spouse or love interest is cheating on you. After reading this list, you may find some area of concern. Don’t confront the cheater, this will only make him clean up the act from her and make it harder for you to catch him in the act and you may not have enough evidence to make your case. I urge you to seek professional help.
Some interesting statistics about cheating husbands and wives:
o 22 percent of married men have been misplaced at least once during their married life.
o 14 percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their married life.
o Young people are more likely candidates; in fact, young women are just as likely to be unfaithful as young men.
o 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men were unaware of their spouse’s extramarital activity.
o Cheating spouse statistics confirm that 50 to 70 percent of married men (38 to 53 million men) have cheated or will cheat on their wives. One study found that 2/3 of wives (26 to 36 million women) whose husbands were cheating on them had no idea their husbands were having an affair, largely because they failed to recognize the telltale signs.
Most cheating wives and husbands fall into two categories. One involves an individual who is married and is seeing someone behind her spouse’s back. The second involves two married people having an affair with each other; both partners in the couple are usually unaware of this deception.
Cheaters usually meet their lover at some point during their workday. In most cases, the cheater and his mistress live or work in the same general area. This gives them time and opportunity to continue their secretive behavior without the threat of discovery by their partner or coworkers. You will also find that they try to verify all the information they get about your daily whereabouts. They will deny everything unless they are faced with hard evidence about their indiscretions.
Cheating basically involves a lot of lies. Cheaters are always lying about where they are, what they are doing, and how they really feel. These lies are often mixed with some truth and incorporated into every aspect of their life that they will share with you. The lies and deceit can only last so long before the notable clues begin to poke holes in the facade they have created.
Here are some tried and tested clues or “signs” that cheating men and women most often exhibit:
o Your partner has had a history or previous instance of infidelity. This falls under the “if it’s happened before, it’s likely to happen again” rule. Those men and women who have cheated once will usually relapse.
o Your partner has spent a lot of time lately exercising or in the tanning salon taking care of their appearance.
o Your spouse seems to act more cold or distant and inconsiderate with your feelings.
o You get calls hanging up on your house in the middle of the night or at odd hours of the day.
o You start receiving many calls from wrong numbers at home.
o Your partner spends a lot of time on the phone away from you, out of earshot.
o You walk into a room and your girlfriend or boyfriend suddenly hangs up the phone or behaves strangely. Your partner can also leave the house or the room to talk on the mobile.
o Your partner hides your cell phone bill from you or is very protective of the bill when it arrives in the mail.
o Your cheating boyfriend or girlfriend has secretly bought a new cell phone.
o Your partner receives suspicious voice messages.
o Discover unknown numbers stored or dialed on your partner’s cell phone.
o Your partner has recently started using calling cards.
o It seems like your partner never answers their cell or home phone in a timely manner when you try to reach them by phone during the day. If she does reply, he seems to be very evasive with you and not be honest about her current whereabouts. They may tell you that they have had cell phone problems.
o You begin to notice that your partner lies to you about insignificant things.
o Your partner has suddenly stopped complaining about things in their relationship with you that have bothered them in the past.
o Notice a new cologne/perfume or sexy outfit in places like your partner’s car.
o Your partner has a secret PO box that he hides from you.
o Discover unknown earrings or jewelry found in your husband’s or wife’s vehicle or somewhere in your home.
o Your partner’s trust level seems to have increased considerably for no apparent reason.
o Your partner has found reasons not to attend family or festive gatherings.
o Your partner begins to manage their laundry independently.
o You notice new cologne or perfume smells on your partner’s clothes.
o Your partner seems to have started acting paranoid. This can include behaviors such as your partner asking if you’ve been “snooping” on them.
Did you recognize any familiar behaviors or clues from the list? If your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you, it is not your fault. Maybe it’s time you let a professional private investigator find out what’s really going on with your spouse or partner. You deserve to know the truth!
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