Attachment is ok for Twin Flames

I have read in the Twin Flame literature that it is important to release the attachment to an outcome with our twins.

Until recently I couldn’t verbalize exactly why that principle didn’t sit well with me. The other day hit me in a way that I would like to share with you.

I will offer my own opinion and you will know immediately if it resonates with you or not.

For twin flames who have met in their physical bodies, it is NOT correct that they should release an attachment to the full physical reunion.

If the twin flames have met in the physical, and if they both know/feel/perceive that this life is their last incarnation, it is destined that they fully meet in this last physical life. For those who would choose a romantic partner with their twin, they must have the vision of that during the first challenging trials and tribulations with the twin. Whether one or both twins are aware of the magnitude of the relationship, at least the one who is aware of this special connection has a duty to keep the vision towards the complete reunion.

My thoughts on this matter are the result of living this experience and getting information along the way.

I felt there was an amount of destiny involved from the moment I began to understand the nature of my relationship with the twin. Even when the pain of separation was painful to the point of injury; I felt that this was true. As our non-physical helpers worked with me over the course of our first six months together, they not only taught me that it was okay for me to work with twins on a soul level, they also taught me that it was my responsibility. It is the obligation of the awakened twin to help the other half.

Like everything, we have freedom of choice. We can decide to give up. Many do. It is understandable why. But if you choose not to give up and keep the vision of the last reunion… if you can learn to bear the pain that comes and goes, and if you are willing to learn more patience than you thought imaginable, it is your obligation to help yourself. himself and fellowship.

My guides taught me that unlike other relationships where a healer must ask for permission (such as energy work), consent is not necessary in a twin flame relationship as the two are already one in essence. of your link. One does not need to ask permission; that would be like asking yourself for permission. You don’t ask, you know you must.

I am talking about working with the soul/higher self and the companion guides. Common courtesy applies to twin flame associations, so when you speak to your twin face to face or on the phone, you of course seek permission and speak to them as you would any other person, but with your soul guiding you. As you nurture the relationship, you experience a change: you realize that you ARE soul, you no longer think about it, you speak effortlessly from your higher self/soul. It becomes automatic.

You realize that you are not a mind that knows you have a soul; that you turn and appreciate that you are SOUL that is spending time in a human body. This is an extraordinarily rare phenomenon to be aware of and have met your twin flame. It feels like the pinnacle of all the experiences you can have while in human form.

Getting there is difficult. This is not an easy task for either of the twins. Eventually both of you will be aware of your connection. At the beginning of the physical relationship, one twin (more commonly the female it seems) is aware and has the demanding task of helping his partner become aware on his physical level of the nature of their bond.

I believe that those with a physically manifested twin feel the pull of their twin for most, if not all, of their embodied life. They may not have the words for it, or for fear of being made fun of, they may not speak it, but they feel it. It is literally as if a human mother gives birth to twins: a boy and a girl. The twins grew up in their mother’s womb and bonded so closely that they shared everything… they communicated without words, they loved and cared and each knew exactly what the other was feeling and experiencing because they shared the same experience.

At birth, their biological mother gave them up for adoption. Each twin went to separate families. Their adoptive parents were unaware that they were welcoming a ‘twin’ into their home… they innocently told the children that they were a single birth. Over the years, the parents assure the child that they do not have a twin for the world, but the child still feels something. Something inexplicable. They feel someone is missing. They know their parents aren’t lying, but they can’t shake the feeling that they have a special person out there somewhere. It’s not that they “want or desire” one; they “have” one. There is no right or wrong, just a difference. You will know what your case is.

Typically the child feels like the ‘lost twin’ at special moments; birthdays, holidays, especially beautiful days and particularly difficult days. When he feels joy in his heart or sadness in his deepest being; he feels (however deeply depressed that belief may be buried) that there is only one soul who would understand them. The bond is so strong that despite everyone telling the child that this kind of relationship is not possible, the child clings to an inexplicable element of faith. & he trusts that one day they will find his twin, his “person” and that his twin is looking for them.

We have life experiences that we must have for many reasons, even if we are destined to meet our twin flame in this lifetime. We must have had numerous experiences in preparation. These life experiences can bring us to the point where we are no longer sure that the soul we feel in our hearts is really with us on this planet. We are taught in many ways that “good” is good enough. Many (myself included) are open to whatever the universe brings and teaches; but while resolving to never “settle” I had also concluded that perhaps our most perfect partners are not incarnated with us and are watching over us and guiding us from the other side. We release our expectation of meeting “him or her” but we never stop. believing that if the universe intends for us to meet in the physical, we will know because we won’t wonder… WE KNOW.

My life experiences did not lead my twin to be anything less than ultimately successful. Beyond that, I’ve come to believe that I’m not supposed to let go of all attachment to the end result. This is due to an experience I had months after I met my twin.

In the depths of the initial confusion and pain with the twin, I was shown a vision. While I often have visions, being a psychic and a healer, I have visions of one thing or another on a regular basis. It’s not a new concept, but the visions are rarely about me, they’re mostly given to provide information I need to help others.

The first time I was provided with a “view” of what would be a likely outcome for me and my twin…I was driving my car. I was listening to music and had managed to get it out of my head for a while. I had been working for weeks and weeks on letting it go and forgetting it, that’s what the ‘experts’ used to say about letting go of expectations, let go, let go, let go!

But my guides had another plan. They put a vision in my head. I was shocked and said (literally out loud) “Stop it. I must have made it up. Why would you show me that?”

A soft energy, a knowledge gently filtered through the car “You’re not making this up. Look again when you’re ready. There’s no rush, look when you’re comfortable with it.”

I allowed myself to look again and I saw the same scene… it looked like a movie. It would stop when he looked away and start when he had the guts to look at the screen.

Again in severe anguish I said, “Please…stop. Why is this happening? Why would you show me this? I’m starting to feel better; I don’t want to see things like this…it hurts more.”

They told me, “You are shown a probable outcome, so you understand why this is happening.”

This affected me deeply. For days I waged an internal battle. “I must have made this up, but WHY would I make up something so confusing? Why would I make up something that didn’t seem possible under the circumstances with the twin?”

This is a critical point. Much of the information in books and on the internet is pretty consistent: the advice is to remove the attachment, not to project a specific outcome…

It took me maybe a month or two to finally get it. This is MY twin flame experience. I was shown this vision of our future for an extraordinary purpose, so that I would not let go of the pinnacle of results: the complete reunion in our physical bodies.

I have worked harder than I can communicate to release the desire and need from my twin’s physical body, I have learned to trust my own soul and his. I trust in the guidance and support I receive from non-physical beings who support us on this journey.

What I realized recently, when suggested to me by a dear friend, is that it is not correct that the twins should be separated from a result. In reality, it is having complete trust IN that outcome that gives the conscious twin the strength, fortitude and grace under the most extreme conditions to continue to love and nurture each other through the difficult aspects of this fascinating merger.

I have known that this is my last incarnation since I was a child. I was told certain details about my soul mate choice in this regard. I did not ask for or meditate on this information, it came to me in a loud voice that could not be ignored. It came to me the same night, the same conversation, in which I was told that not only was it possible, but it was my duty and responsibility to work with the twin at the soul level and continue to work with myself, so that reunification would take place. . They (the spiritual teachers) were clear that if I was willing to do the work, they would teach me what I needed to know.

I am not here to argue with the opinions of others. I can only speak of the information I receive about our relationship.

Trying to figure out anything about the weather or how the trip will unfold is silly, I’ve come to see that. Cycle after cycle I become clearer. I struggle at times to release all of this to the universe and let her handle it however she wants. Liberating is not the same as being detached. Attached means keeping the faith, trusting and believing, but letting someone else (the universe and our souls) take care of the details.

They gave me a gift: they showed me what was possible. I was shown what was intended to happen if I/we just listened and did what we were told/shown to do. While I was not given the luxury or comfort of being shown what the path/journey would be; nor was I shown anything that referenced the timeline, I was shown the most likely result and I refuse to post it. I remain attached in faith. They wouldn’t have shown it to me if I wasn’t supposed to see it and have complete trust and faith in it and us.