Get Your Girlfriend Back – Playing with her sympathy won’t help you win her back!

Your life has been shattered. Your girlfriend left you and you feel like life is no longer worth it. Basking in self-pity is all he can do right now, he’s so depressed. You love your ex so much and you wonder if there is any chance of getting your ex girlfriend back.

Chances are, you feel sorry for yourself, as well as your family and friends. However, the last person on earth you will find sympathy for is your ex. You didn’t argue with your family and friends, nor did you say those terrible things you said to your ex.

She won’t forget what happened hastily. If you try to call her now or send her messages, she will just ignore them. Having one of your friends tell him how depressed you are since the breakup won’t work either. She is suffering as much as you are and is VERY angry with you too. Getting your ex back by playing on her sympathy will NOT work.

In any case, even if you get your ex to talk to you by making him feel sorry for you, is this really what you want? Okay, she will feel sorry for you for a while, but how long will this last? You will keep doing the things that irritate her, so another argument and another breakup is inevitable.

Getting your ex girlfriend back because she loves you and WANTS to be with you is a much better option. It will take a little more effort, but in the end it will be much more rewarding. Just work on the things you were doing that were bothering her, correct any mistakes you might have made, start with a clean slate, so to speak.

Offer your ex the type of man he’s looking for: the man you were when you first started dating. Apologize to her for making her so unhappy. Admit your mistakes and let him see your willingness to correct them. In short, offer her a relationship that will make her happy again and you will have a very good chance of getting your ex back.