Why Nice Guys Suck And Women Don’t Like Them

There are many men who feel that they are a “nice guy” and that women are crazy to pass them up. Well I have some news for you folks.

Nobody cares that you’re “nice.”

See, the problem is that “nice” guys put themselves on some kind of pedestal. Nice guys like to think that they are superior to other men, that they are better in relationships, and that by virtue of their “niceness” they serve a woman’s romantic attentions more.

From experience I can tell you that the “nice” guys are not as good as they like to think. Most “nice guys” are whiny, closed-minded, judgmental, weak, controlling, and weak. Women don’t like weak, whiny and judgmental men. Ergo, women don’t like “nice” guys.

Women want MEN: decisive, action-oriented, determined, aggressive. Sadly, sometimes that comes along with a liar and cheating, which is what the “nice” guys point out and the reason why they say women are crazy.

But who said that every woman SHOULD want a “nice” guy? Who made that a law? Why do “nice” guys condemn women for choosing impulsive, thrill-seeking men with a bad-boy edge? In other words, options that exclude the “good” guys?

Being a “nice guy” doesn’t score you points in the dating game! Never has, never will. You win in dating when you give the opposite sex what they want. Even if a woman is your wife, you still have to have a backbone, stand your ground, and stay in control of yourself like a man should.

The bottom line that you “good guys” need to understand is this: when women are young, they are not interested in settling down and being serious. Why would a girl want a clingy and overly helpful codependent around? Young women want to HAVE FUN. And the best men to have fun with are the impulsive, thrill-seeking ones who have an edge… men who pump testosterone and inspire passion and desire with their games and lies.

That’s why “nice” guys who project neediness, who go out of their way to please women with the expectation of getting something in return, get overlooked.

“I was so nice to her, why doesn’t she love me?

I deserve someone to love me more than those players!”, say the good guys.

No, you don’t. But if you want to get girls, you have to be the type of man who never allows a woman to tell him what to do or control him in any way. Certainly, in a marital partnership trust is established and decisions are made with the input of both parties for the betterment of the family. But here we are talking about dating, not marriage. Just remember, once you allow a woman to have the upper hand in a relationship, she loses respect for you. And when a woman loses respect for a man, she also loses her sexual attraction to him. She sees you as a brother, and normal people aren’t sexually attracted to her brothers. Subsequently, you are placed in the Friend Zone and you will never leave. If the two were dating, she would eventually declare that “he’s too nice” and dump him out of boredom.

However, there is hope for you.

Bad boy types remain exciting for a few years, then most women move on. Once the game is out of their system (just like the guys), people change their perspective on life. Your lifestyle, clothing, and romantic partner choices also change.

As a woman approaches 30, she transitions and begins to search for a husband and father for her children. She will look for slightly different qualities in her partner and will place more emphasis and value on personal qualities such as honesty, work ethic, family values, responsibility, and a similar lifestyle than on arousal and sexual attractiveness.

However, even if a woman is 50, she does NOT want a weak, whiny, judgmental, superior guy! Every woman on this planet wants a guy that she sees as attractive, exciting, and sexy; he just wants him to be committed and dedicated to her and her children at the same time.

Finding the right woman for you is simply a matter of matching whatever a woman is looking for. If you adjust to her needs, you are into her. If you’re not cast as Mr. “Nice” Guy, that simply means you don’t meet his needs. No matter how “nice” you are as a guy, you are not the RIGHT guy for her.